please listen to reason

I know you're ok, but it would be more assuring for everyone if we were able to contact you or see you. You really went overboard this time. You may believe that what you have done is right but you are wrong this time. Of that, I am sure.

You could have trusted us to help you. If you would only allow us to help. We think we know why you did what you did, and despite our best efforts to twist the situation to your favor, we can't. Noone's blaming you for what you did. Noone's blaming you for anything. I certainly hope you don't blame yourself when you find out what's been happening while you were "gone".

You dont need to do anything you dont want to do. All you have to do is listen. Listen to us, your friends, your family, to everyone who's concerned and worried sick about you. It may seem hard at first, but you know you need to listen. As blinded as you are by the happiness you think you're feeling, we really think you should check again. Slow down. You have your whole life ahead of you. Noone's leaving you. Noone's going to judge you. Be assured that your friends and family will still accept you. If they dont, then at least you know that they are not your real friends and family. The reason you did all this, is not worth it. "It" is not worth destroying your life over.

We dont know if we did the right thing. We dont know anything. We only know that you need to stop what you're doing. It may not yet be apparent to you, but it is clear to us that it is only hurting you. After this is over, nothing will change. Everything will still be the same. Except that you - we hope - have by then learned to understand why we are doing what we are doing.